today we see people marrying and giving out kids as if marriage was an institution for manufacturing kids.
kids are reflection of god and are humans like u dey need to be made complete humans and true sons of god by der parents.
kids in the beginning are treated as if dey are sum kind of toy being passed on from one hand to another and being coochy cooed and called sweet and cute but, the baby keeps crying his desires, his moods, his expressions are very easily either neglected ,ignored or superimposed by the so called experienced(egotistical donkey's) elders of that family.Elders have experience and hav much knowledge, they shud be respected but, elders who dont knoe how to listen to the real meaning behind the cries of that baby is completely useless.A mother is a mother because she is supposed to understand evrythng of the babies mind.His notions,
his desires, his wnts shud be known to her before the baby evn does give the first cry for it.or else she is just a biological mother not a real mother.......
many people see kids as der families new generation which will produce more of dumb kids like him and increase the population of der respective family.Gurls are very easily neglected by most of the people or over caressed to shamelessness and dirt of body, mind and soul.Raising gurls is the most difficult task as she is the miniature form of the heavenly mother the shakti in this universe.The power is gud or bad according to its raising,conservation and manipulation and control.
feminism is not the answer for it.It is one of the biggest examples of gurls raised to idiotic notions and beliefs,and losing der mind to either over emotionalism,lack in sense of grace,lack of self respect and lack of purity or getting over rational and become very bad mothers,sisters and being poor in all the major characters of womans life.
parents demselves shud hav enuff mental material inside der hollow brains.
atleast sum in particulate matter!!!!!!to raise the kids atleast to the level of der self dependence.vedas say parents who do not educate children are his enemies and his exploiters.
Education does not mean squeezing large blocks of books inside your kids brain.
Education is the teaching of how to live life and towards god
and to teach them developing der own philosophy,thinking and logical and emotional reasoning in complete balance developed out of long practice of various experiments in real life.Parents shud guide them at times,rebuke at times and also control them or indicate and test at times.But, just making him read gud buks abt how to live is like feeding wax fruits to a hungry person.Giving skools so called education by so called highly qualified yet illiterate teachers makes kids grow up into nothing but mere financially successful 'potatoes' in der own house.dese are not useful even to demselves wen challenged by ups and downs of life. Others are out of question to get any help from dese fried potatoes.
A complete education consists of a great deal of practical life experiments to be done by themselves and safely guiding them out of it with empowering sympathy,unconditional love and equal giving of emotional and rational advice and caring.
blind love makes kids either go astray and be completely materialistic in their attitude or make them completely coward,misjudgmental and complete schizophrenic always merged in self animation of der own dreamy,hallucinated minds.
kids are miniature and original form and reflection of god and also are sons of god like we are.They are to be made gods by directing and educating them completely in full respect towards self realization and god.
A kid raised to financial success,material success,academic success 'alone' are the kids who hav been cheated in der lives and der life is half wasted by ther own parents.
parenting is huge responsiblity given by god to man.kids are no utility or an object of joy for u.......but a son of god temporarily given to u by god to raise and send him bak to him after attaining complete god realization...........
prayer:
Oh lord save thy kids from the dirty concepts of dirty parenting'
Oh lord save thy kids from being hurled by parents into materiality
oh god please help us with thy light in our hearts
and bless us with thy eternal power to raise kids towards you........
oh god gud lord father,mother, brother god
bless me, thy own son always....... from eternity till eternity!!!!!!!
GOD,LORD,AUM,AMEN!!!!!!!!!
it is all very beautiful....
ReplyDeletebut we have got only one set of parents! however they are.
i wish to know how to enhance the good we get from our parents and remove the bad part of our rearing?
self parenting is the answer.......
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